THAT'S IT, YOU'RE ALL GROUNDED.

[crysthewolf]

My Mom's been driving me crazy, Dad gets all in a tizzy over Wil because he believes him and Toni when they say act like every disagreement between me and them is my fault and that if I'd just keep my mouth shut everything'd be fine.  I don't understand why so many people in my world seem to get so well that, regardless of whether what they say is MEANT to be hurtful to me, "I'm talking and that's causing her pain, perhaps I should stop talking and stop causing her pain."  Or that when you blame me for other people being mean to me, it sends me into a whirlwind of hurt and darkness that I just don't have control over yet (yes, I will, but it takes time, so back off a minute.) ...and other people, don't have a fucking clue.

Since my family, whether well-meaning or not, don't quite seem to get that, you're all put on notice... you are GROUNDED until after the holidays.  Spend time with each other, have fun in a Crys-free world for a little while, because I need to hole up and be away from you all. 

Brian and Jennifer and the boys are NOT grounded, you are MORE THAN WELCOME TO CONTACT ME TO YOUR HEART'S CONTENT!  (give the boys my cell number if they want it.)  Let me repeat, BRIAN AND JENNIFER AND JAKEB AND JUSTIN, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME ABSOLUTELY ANYTIME, ALWAYS. Cory and Zoey are also NOT grounded, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CALL ME ABSOLUTELY ANYTIME.

The rest of you are on notice until either the holiday season passes or I feel like I can deal with you again.

Dad, feel free to visit my message board and I'm going to leave it's moderation in Harley's capable hands for the time being.  I'll be back later.  If I don't respond to your emails it's because I'm filtering them to a special folder to check up on later.  If there's an emergency have Brian and Jennifer call me.

Yes, that's right, I'm taking a vacation from all of you.  Sorry, I need a time out.  Sorry it's during the holidays but, y'know, that may very well be better for everyone.

Love,

Crystal

Comments

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

I love that he only has the balls to make one response to your post and then begins to completely ignore it.

I agree that time away is probably best. Anyway, the holidays should be a time of joy and happiness, not family squabbles and abuse.

Doing anything Dec. 20th yet?

Re: hope you're proud.

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

heh, give him time. I'll just warn you that he's not above attacking my friends... or attacking me for not defending him against my mean old liberal friends (he's not gotten the hint yet that it's people who ACT like family who get treated like family, not just people who happen to be born my relatives.)

[ewok-626.livejournal.com]

If he starts attacking your friends, maybe consider blocking/screening his comments?

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

believe me I will. But I am warning that you may end up having to block him from your own journal, because he's obsessed with having the last word and he may follow you there.

[ewok-626.livejournal.com]

Ha, I had to do that with an ex-boyfriend a few months ago. And when he finally found out, he was all pissy. It's like dude, you're my ex. Stop stalking me.

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Oh, that's quite all right. I've dealth with my share of close-minded idjits and I'm sure it'll be more of the same usual schlock. I knew I was punching a potential hornet's nest when I replied. But I like standing up for my friends ^_^

Re: hope you're proud.

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

*hugs* well he won't be responding here, he's been banned from my LJ. But I can't promise he won't follow you to yours so please feel free to ban him from yours as well.

However, do me a favor and keep a record of if he DOES try to follow you to your LJ and if possible print it out or send it to me somehow.

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Ok, shall do. There's only one public post, though, which is my intro post, so at least it'll be nice and easy to find ^_^ :P

Re: hope you're proud.

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

LOL, good deal.

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Yeah. I decided I was tired of having people reading my LJ that I didn't want reading it so now everything's f-locked. W00t.

Re: hope you're proud.

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

"Doing anything Dec. 20th yet?"

I may be helping a couple of friends move, but that'd probably be early in the day. Why do you ask?

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Mmkay. That's the day we're doing Yule stuff over at AJ's. I'll have to ask 'cause it's her house, but I'm sure she wouldn't mind having you (and Chris if he wants to come) over if you want to be there : )

Re: hope you're proud.

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

LOL, ok. Well we've already been told we're always welcome but feel free to ask for posterity's sake. ;) I can't see us not coming this time. :) That sounds really wonderful.

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Spiffy ^_^ It's pretty fun, and apparently we get to use the Yule story that I grew up hearing in Thalia, so yay ^_^ That makes me very happy.

Call or email or whathave you AJ if you want any further details about what our plans are : )

Re: hope you're proud.

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Consider yourself officially invited ^_^ Just heard back from AJ-mom. Chris is welcome if he wants to come, too, of course (for some reason my fingers keep wanting to put a t on the end of his name :P)

Re: hope you're proud.

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

LOL!!! Now THAT'D be interesting. ;)

And duly noted. We'll do our best to be there. :)

So bloody sick of that subject line

[ardent-firesong.livejournal.com]

Sweet ^_^