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[crysthewolf]

He didn't let Jesse's post.  He did let these (not my responses to his, not yet anyway.  I'm sure he will so that anyone who reads will know just how mean I am to him.)

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I have a daughter, Crystal Nichole Walter, that's NUTS!

• Dec. 29th, 2008 at 6:08 PM

 

I'm not sure what happened.  Her birth 27 years ago was normal. No one dragged her screaming and thrashing from the warmth of the womb.  She came out with the contractions her mother experienced.  The doctor DID slap her on the rump to get her to start breathing, but I'm pretty sure that happens to all of us. No one dropped her on her head, that I know of.

     But now, 27 years after her normal birth, Suddenly she's the Know-all;  psychopathetic persecutor of all mankind.  She has turned against her mother.  She has turned against me, her father.  She has turned against all family except for her oldest half-brother and his wife and their sons.  She has turned against God.  She has turned against many of her "friends".  And decided that she needs all of us,  NOT!  And that, thank you, is THAT! 

     She has cut-off all contact with anyone of us!  None can reach her thanks to the modern ways we communicate.  She can selectively block each of us from e-mail, posting, cell phones or any other way. And yet rants on, on her blogs about what horrible monsters we all are and how "DARE WE" do less than offer her total submission and/or adoration?

     Her name (because she named all of us) is Crystal Nichole Walter.  She posts most often as "Crys the Wolf".   If any who read this CAN contact her, please let her know that I've posted this.  I WANT her to know that there are some people in this world that CAN and do survive her "punishments"  and do quite well, at that!  I do warn you though. She is manipulative,  she is argumentative, and she cusses like a sailor, drunk and in a port she knows she won't be back to.   

     If you do so inform her, be wary......she often tries to "slay the messenger" when delivered of bad news.  She is NOT reasonable, she is NOT approachable unless she senses your own evil intent in your efforts!  Now that I Have posted this, I feel that I have given a warning in however a small way, to my fellow humans of her bizarre nature.

 

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crysthewolf wrote:

Mar. 9th, 2009 09:04 pm (UTC)

y'know, the real shame is that I JUST saw this.

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ohtobking wrote:

Mar. 10th, 2009 04:27 pm (UTC)

That's because you're not only nuts, you're a little slow! I really don't care what your FRIENDS think about your little mess. I'm only speaking as a rebuked and hurt father. You think you can say to me, you're not Dad, you're just Bill and I won't be hurt? Oh wait a minute. That's right, You're Crystal the ONE that matters. Well thank you, but no! Your recolections of your life are as skewed as your outlook! You only remember YOUR version of anything. Which of course makes you completely innocent. How accomdating is that? Yep, I stand by my statement, you're nuts! JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!@

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crysthewolf wrote:

Mar. 10th, 2009 07:45 pm (UTC)

Oh bull-shit. It's awfully funny that you were "fine with what you have to say, just not how you said it", and then all of the sudden had to warn the world that I'm fucked up because you're a "rebuked and hurt father". AFTER I'd already apologized for both what I had to say, and the way you said it.

I'm convoluted? Why don't you get your head straight.

You know what? It's easier for you to say "you're just like your mother" than it is for you to deal with your own FUCKUPS, isn't it? Blow it off. "You're just like your Mother." And then go and lie to Barb and anyone else I might respect just like you lied to them about her.

You know what hurts? Being told that you treated your parents like shit. You know what hurts? Having your own father support an asshole who tells you that you're worthless. You know what hurts? being told that your step-mother thinks you're just fucked up and that's why you can't move from the abusive situation that you're in to your Dad's.

You know what hurts, Dad? Being lied to and put down and told that there's something wrong with you for not liking being told that you're worthless and crazy and a bitch. So I think I'M the one who gets to react to that, and if the WORST THING I HAVE TO SAY TO YOU IS THAT YOU'RE MORE BILL THAN YOU ARE A FATHER, THEN MAYBE YOU FUCKING HAVE IT COMING. Y'THINK?????

All you know how to do is sling nasty words and abuse. That's your repsonse to your own fucking guilt. Well y'know what? SHOVE IT UP YOUR ASS.

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crysthewolf wrote:

Mar. 9th, 2009 09:55 pm (UTC)

and I was really starting to feel better about shit.

You know what? Just don't bother. That's what you think of me. It is ridiculously fucked up (equally ridiculously fucked up that someone would post something like that about their kid on the internet, but hey, that's me) but you're entitled to it.

In much the same way that I'm entitled to not want to bother with someone who's convinced themselves, and most likely others, that that's the sort of person that I am.

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ohtobking wrote:

Mar. 10th, 2009 04:33 pm (UTC)

I won't dear! That's what I think of you, because that's what you've shown to me! And a person who would post something like this about their kid on the internet is simply the hurt parent of a kid who posted worse about her father and family on the internet! Please don't try to play little miss innocent and misunderstood! You're far too old for that crap! As to convincing anyone of anything. I leave it to you to once again try to influence as many "Idiots" as you can to join you on your crusade to do whatever it is your warped mind is set on! But please, in your endeavors to convince others of your sainthood or whatever it is you're desiring, leave me alone!

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crysthewolf wrote:

Mar. 10th, 2009 07:48 pm (UTC)

Once again, BULL-FUCKING-SHIT, and you know it. "Oh I'm just a poor hurt father, feel sorry for me." After the shit you've said to me? You can play "poor Bill" with your wife and your stepkids if you want to. I'm not buying it.

Who can't take responsibility for their own actions??????

You know FULL WELL that this isn't who I am, but this is the person you've created in your head. For whatever reason you might have... to justify not coming around, to have an excuse not to see me... and I don't fucking care.

It's your problem, not mine. You have fun making up shit about me with Will so that you can justify being an asshole to me until you don't have to deal with me anymore. You COULD just have said "I don't want to be in your life", but that would have been telling, wouldn't it?

Fuck you.

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crysthewolf wrote:

Mar. 10th, 2009 07:53 pm (UTC)

And I don't need you to care what my "friends" think.

Because they're more family to me than you've EVER been.

or will ever be, now.

Congratulations. You don't have to be a Dad anymore.

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[mycybertuffet.livejournal.com]

Okay, I was going to wait till I got home (it's been a busy day), but ...

"Nuts just like your mother"?

"NUTS JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER"??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay ... FIRST of all, there's a WORLD of difference between expressing your anger at someone over the internet, and the sort of blatant psychological manipulation he's engaging in. SECONDLY ... Jesus, this person does not have a single parental, non-self-centered bone in his body, does he? THIS IS NOT HOW A PARENT TREATS ONE OF THEIR CHILDREN. And it doesn't matter if you're technically an adult now - to a NORMAL person, someone's child is always their child. Just like a NORMAL person would move hell and high water to do whatever they could to help their child if they were being abused by a parent, or even just in garden-variety psychological distress. And for a NORMAL person, if the spouse didn't like it ... that'd be the dealbreaker for that relationship. No ifs, ands, or buts. You can take an intellectual route to explaining it by saying that when you bring a child into the world, you have a responsibility to give them everything you possibly can ... but really, it just seems to be an ingrained part of the human psyche to love one's children through hell and high water, above and beyond all else. At least, the NORMAL human psyche. Narcissistic man-children like your father, however, have a bit of a screw loose that's in there nice and tightly for everyone else. He's missing something that's crucial to being human. But he doesn't have the capacity to realize it. If you don't have the capacity for the kind of love that the rest of the human race does, you won't ever be able to understand it. It's a "does not compute" kind of thing.

Notice that all he does is talk about the ways that you're supposedly fucked up. He piteously refers to himself as the hurt, victimized father, but he can't actually state ANY way that he feels hurt or victimized. He vaguely throws out a few things that you've supposedly done to him that he should feel ashamed of, but he's totally unable to articulate anything SPECIFIC - specific ways you've "wronged" him, or specific FEELINGS he has about that, or the reasons why he's so "hurt". He also can't mount any sort of defense, and he clearly knows that because he doesn't even try. It's all very vague and quite insubstantial, particularly in comparison with the vast amount of energy he expended calling you names and trying to make you feel like shit about yourself. You, in contrast, very clearly articulated the things you're upset about, the actions he's taken that make you angry and hurt, the feelings you're experiencing, and, most glaringly absent from his diatribes, the connections between all of those things. You connect thoughts to behaviors to actions. He does no such thing. He just calls you "crazy" a whole bunch and leaves it up to you to infer why - because he can't do it himself; that would require an actual examination of the situation and his own behavior. Cowardly asshole.

FINALLY ... "NUTS JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER"??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The mind boggles at the prospect of even trying to unpack that. To sum up: what a twisted sicko. Oh - again, sorry if this is going too far. As Cordelia might say to me, "overidentify much?" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parental_alienation)

Seriously - I'm not making this shit up. Just as it's amazing how much you can learn about crazy people on the internet ... you can learn an extraordinary amount about normal people, too.

(Btw, it looks like Will blocked my IP address from his website - lol! And, taking a page from that exemplar of Christ-like virtues, Michelle Malkin, he made sure that I know he regards me as a "loser." ::snort::)

[crysthewolf.livejournal.com]

No, you didn't go too far. And yeah, the "Nuts like your mother" thing I think was supposed to deal a psychological blow because it was actually something I'd told him, quite recently that I was personally afraid of. Luckily I stopped taking him seriously within a few hours after reading his post.

*snicker* on the Will thing. I don't know if I've ever met such an educated moron. ;)

(or UNeducated one, for that matter!)