Why I wear my claddagh on my left hand...

I'm hoping

per_solo  doesn't mind me posting this, but I've gotten alot of questions about it, so I figured I'd just do a general post.

The short story is, basically, that I keep proposing to Chris and he keeps saying yes. ;)  No, it's not a joke, I really mean it, and so does he.  However, since he's in school right now and that already causes a lot of stress for both of us and finances are tight all around, we don't want to get caught up in anything else that is going to lay more stress on us or our relationship, like, for instance, wedding planning.  Or people asking us when we're going to set a date. 

So yes, we want to get married.  No, we're not setting a date yet.  I guess you can call it an "informal engagement".  What can I say?  We're unconventional. ;)

I do have my standards tho.  I told him we're not officially engaged until HE asks ME. ;)  A silly fancy expensive ring is optional (I'm sorry, I'd rather have a down-payment on a house than a shiny ring.  That's just how I roll.)

 

So there.  Does that help the confusion or make it worse? ;)

Love,
Crystal